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Our first semi-real wedding - the (long) review

 

 


Jenn M
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Mar 5, 2007, 1:05 PM

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Hello all!

Shot our first full photo-only gig on Saturday, and it was great! But man alive am I so S-O-R-E sore. My thighs are killing me. I have to get back into shape and start doing some squats! My arms, wrists, back and shoulders feel fine though - unlike when I get home from a video job. This all makes sense to me b/c one thing I notice w/ photo is I'm moving around much more than with video, mainly during the reception. With video, I get up on my step stool and pretty much stay put, relying on camera zoom to get me across the dance floor. But the constant video shooting kills my back and whole upper half! It was nice to put the camera down once in a while.

The day started off a little rocky - bride was late getting to the hotel and then when she finally did get there - she wanted to go out for a smoke and didn't want to get dressed right away. She thought photos w/ the bmaids, etc. would take about 5 to 10 mins. and then she could take her dress off again to hang out. I had this conversation with her at least 2 times before - the schedule and how things fly by, etc - but she didn't retain much of it. She wasn't our typical bride - so that made it more difficult. Like our first job back in October - she wasn't going to hire a real photog - she was just going to have a friend snap some photos. Her DJ hooked us up. That's why I call this a semi-real wedding - we did it for $500, all print credit, BUT she went through all the motions on the wedding day. Booked it last fall when we were trying anything and everything to get some experience.

I'm so glad we did it, though. She prepped at the hotel. Had the quickest damn ceremony EVER at the reception venue (less than 10 mins which kinda sucked), and then a full reception, with formal photos in between. (Our first wedding only had a dinner reception - no dancing or reception formalities.)

I had a blast - I really did enjoy working with everyone. And I got REALLY good practice at 'crowd control!' A low budget wedding with a bunch of drunk groomsmen and crass bridesmaids (belching, boob-grabbing and all) - if that doesn't break you in, what will?

At one point, one bmaid said to me, "Boy - you guys sure are more laid back than my photographer was..." We asked who it was and it turned out to be one that we haven't worked with for years b/c he's so miserable and HATES videographers and just about everyone else. (Can't figure out WHY he shoots weddings.) Anyway, she said the pictures were fine but he was so annoying and rude - she eventually told him to get the F away from her. Laugh Her review didn't surprise me at all. I've heard it a hundred times before.

Here's some things I learned that helped either build my confidence or made me aware for the next time, things I thought might be helpful to other photo-only newbs:

1) Having a background in weddings totally helps! I already knew having backup equipment and everything else is a must. Apparently one of our sets of rechargeable batteries didn't charge and 5 or 6 shots into prep, my flash died. So we changed batteries and kept on going, but it kind of thru us off b/c we were down a set from the start. We stopped and bought some more 'just in case' on the way to the ceremony. Also, Brian used the Quantum pack for the reception - he said, though it made his shoulder sore, it seemed to help with recycle time. I went without it and didn't notice much of a problem, and I was the 'main' photog. BUT I also changed to a fresh set of alkalines right before the reception started - again 'just in case.'

2) If you ask, they will listen. As the videographer, we are so accustomed to capturing moments as they happen. With photo, b/c there is no movement, you sometimes can't get the perfect angle or expression b/c it's frozen (obviously, da). But by the end of the night, I felt more confident in asking subjects to turn in a specific direction, or change their posture to better suit the photo. I wished I had done more of this from the start of the day. I'm not a huge fan of posing everything - I do like some true PJ. But for some things, it is better to offer 'guidance' or direction. And people are much more willing to cooperate with the photographer b/c it's quick and painless - unlike video, where you need to capture about 10-20 seconds for it to be useful. BUT that's the key - make it quick and painless. This comes with practice. Brian is a little slow at composing his shot and snapping the shutter. For some things, like formals, that may be more acceptable. But during the reception, for example, people just want to have fun, so don't hold them up. Get in, get the shot, and get out.

3) It helps to have a game plan. Before the wedding, I sat down and wrote out all the family groupings, in an order I thought would be effecient to execute. Eventaully this may become natural, but to start off, I wanted to have a plan in mind. I was so glad I did that, b/c it saved me so much time and when the couple turned to me and asked, 'What do we do' or 'Who do we need for this one?' I had an immediate answer. I ended up not pulling the list out during the photo shoot b/c I had memorized it, but it was close by in case I needed it. I checked it later to make sure I didn't miss anything. The only thing I missed was a ring shot - which is no biggie - so I quickly did that during dinner while they were in between courses.

I started with family members (grandparents, esp. so they could go sit down and didn't have to stand around waiting). I took care of those. I discouraged extended family b/c I KNEW I would lose too much time during that short cocktail hour. I learned that lesson with the October wedding. We did waaaay too many family photos that we nearly ran out of time for just the bride and groom. So I told the bride that we could do it during the reception, between courses, as they visited their guests at the table. That ALSO saved time b/c everyone was contained in one place and we didn't have to round them up and wait.

So I made sure to get the bride and maids all before the ceremony; the groom and all the ushers. Then after the ceremony I only needed to do the large groups of bridal party. So we started with family, dismissed them so they could go eat and mingle (b/c really, that's all they care about). Next shot bridal party. Then b/g, moh, and best man. And finally just worked with the couple.

AGain, I was glad I had a game plan and experience shooting weddings, b/c the bride wanted to start with just her and the groom. That would have been a baaaad idea. Also, before the wedding day, I had this discussion with the bride - I told her to designate a 'gofer' - someone to go out and grab individuals, so I didn't lose the bride or groom or any key players. (This is also where it helps to have an assistant - Brian was great at getting equipment I needed, etc. And he didn't mind b/c he wanted no part of organizing formals.) While the gopher gathered people, I might have shot a few detail or solo shots of the b&g. The only thing I missed was not being more 'available' to shoot the spontaneous moments in between the photos - the stuff I usually get on video. sigh. That's where a second shooter would be a nice addition. Brian could have done it if we had more time.

4) Time is a balancing act. Speaking of time, I felt great about keeping on schedule and moving thru the formals quickly, but I was so ramped up that I feel I rushed thru the b/g portraits. I should have glanced at my list, b/c I also jotted down a few couple-shot ideas in case I blanked out. I'm sure I got enough, but we were so ahead of schedule, that I probably could have gotten more of the things on my list. And the bride and groom were fairly willing, though the bride WAS consumed with her next cigarette break. sigh

One thing I did remember to do at this wedding which I didn't do at the last wedding, for lack of time and opporunity, was get a solo shot of the bride and solo shot of the groom. I was surprised to find how easy it was to forget to do this. You get so caught up in making sure you get all the requested group shots, that you lose track of time and overlook the 2 most important people.

5) Don't fear the flash. This might be my own issue. I know most newer photogs use too much flash and don't allow enough ambient light. But I have the opposite problem. I'm not a big fan of the 'miner's helmet' look and therefore, try to minimize the hot look of flash by boucning nearly 100% of the time. This turned out to be a mistake during the ceremony b/c it was dark in there and I was too far from them. I realize that in most ceremony locations, I won't be allowed to use flash anyway, but they usually have some kind of lighting up on the altar. The photos are okay. I don't think the couple will even care, b/c like I said, the ceremony was such a rush, and they never faced one another or hardly looked at each other. (They were both nervous.) But I was hoping to get some decent ceremony shots.

Ceremony - For the most part I shot at 1000 ISO at f4.5 and 30 shutter, boucing flash off the 12 ft. ceiling, with it pointed slightly forward. (OH, and we also made a few Better Bounce cards and used those throughout the day. I'm a fan! The Fong-dong sat quietly at home, waiting for our return.) While I didn't get blur (b/c they hardly moved), the images are rather soft. We will correct for noise using Neat Image.

Oh, and our processional and recessional shots pretty much suck. We practiced for these so many times, but when it comes down to it, argggg - they are the worst part of the ceremony. Apparently I'm not alone - I've read several other photogs complain about them too. Brian shot from the front, I shot from the back - our shutter was too low, b/c we both got some blur. Brian, not as badly b/c he used more flash and he was closer to the subjects when he fired. I should have pointed my flash more directly, and/or used a higher shutter.

Reception - same thing. We can correct the noise in Neat Image (b/c we shot at high ISOs again), but there is more blur than I think should be there. I will post photos soon to show you. My 'tech' guy (Brian) is currently unavailable (working the day job) and I can't figure out half that crap, so as soon as he gets home, we'll work on getting those up. (We had our neice's b-day party yesterday - we were both so annoyed that we couldn't stay home and play! Nerds.)

Again, b/c I shot at such a high ISO and low shutter (keeping apeture somewhere around 4.0 most of the time), AND bounced flash with high ceilings (20+ feet in the reception), my images were soft. AND too often I didn't get close enough to the subject. SO next time, I'll be more careful to throw more flash forward and/or get closer to the subject to 'freeze' them and overpower any unwanted light, such as a DJ's flashing strobe (unless, of course, I'm going for that effect).

OH, and I had the same problem with large-group formals. I should have thrown more light forward. I used fill flash on my camera, and Brian held another flash 45 degrees to the side, both bouncing. The images aren't as sharp as I would like, esp. if they want enlargements. I think I should have had Brian point his flash more directly at the subjects? (Since I don't have umbrellas and all that jazz - just the 2 580EXs - master and slave.) By the way, I was the master, Brian was my slave. ha ha ha Sly

6) Learn the camera and how the image translates in print. While many of the images looked great in that tiny viewfinder. When we got home and uploaded them and started viewing them, I was disappointed, as mentioned above, to find that many of the images weren't as sharp as I would like. Most of it can be fixed or enhanced in post, but getting it right the first time is obviously more economical and practical.

7) It's easier than video but it's not easy. I never meant to say it was easy, period. I knew there would be challanges and if it's done well, and done right, it's work. But I have to admit, it was so nice not worrying about the audio. It was so nice to have a little downtime between events. And it was so nice to have the banquet manager at my beck and call, asking me if I needed anything, how is the lighting, when am I ready to do this or that? Wierd. But nice. It was nice to have people turn toward my camera, rather than away. It was nice to be able to come upon a moment and not startle it or squelch it with my freakin' video light. I could get in, pop off the shot, and before they realized what was happening, I got what I needed.

8) Timing is key. Getting what you need isn't always a piece of cake though. The most frustrating part was snapping PJ type shots at just the right moment, esp. during dancing - not losing an expression or moment to a random body part flying up in the shot. Not having someone making a goofy face or facing the wrong way. B/c you have no movement to put the shot in context, the image has to stand alone and explain itself. For example, I have a shot of the bride singing at the groom and it looks like she is yelling at him. I don't think it's a good image, but at the time, it was a great moment. (Here's where I prefer video.)

9) And this is the funniest part - videographers ARE a pain in the butt! Well, the family friend ones are. It's amazing - photogs are constantly telling us how there hardly see any videographers at gigs and we shot 2 (low-end) weddings that had videographers. Tongue Granted, both were family friends (FOF), but oi, jeezus. This made me even more annoyed that more photogs aren't nicer to us, b/c we don't do half the crap these guys do. We don't circle around the couple during formal dances or at all really. We don't jump in front of the photog or call attention away from them during formals or group shots. We don't blast our light in people's face.

I had to laugh - I was shooting the bride and groom with extended family during the reception and the video FOF came over and turned on his Sony 10/20 light and one of the aunts put her hand up in front of her face and squinted, grumbling for him to go away. I actually had to tell him to kill the light - I felt like such an ass doing that, but... sigh.

Brian came over to me a few times and gripped how much of a pain this guy was - really nice, but clueless and annoying with the moving around. "No wonder they hate us," he said. I once again reinforced that this is why I want to offer both - so we don't have to deal with that as much. I mean, I know there will still be the FOFs who just can't leave their cameras at home, but we are less likely to run into that if the b&g are paying us to do it - then they won't ask cousin or Uncle Joe to 'videotape' it for them.

Brian is a little freaked out about us having to shoot both, but I still believe it will make things easier overall. Both will be scaled down to a manageable level. We won't both be shooting video, so there will be less crap to go through and we won't need 2 of everything brought in with us. And we won't both be shooting stills, so there won't be as many images to go through and more of what we shoot will count.

We did pretty good yesterday - came home with about 1000 images, which included a lot of crap - some test shots and lots of dancing throw-away stuff. Yesterday morning, I scaled it down to about 550 images which we will run for proofs. Of those, I would say there are about 200 solid useful shots that would be delivered as paper proofs for any other package. (In this case, she only gets a CD of high rez proofs.)

I knew we would have more than we need b/c this was more of a 'learning' experience for us. (By the way, I informed the bride of our situation when she 'hired' us, so she's well aware.)


Sorry my post is sooo long but I wanted to share with those who are on the fence or getting ready to venture out in the same capacity. Photos will follow soon. Any and all feedback or input on my review and/or experience is very welcome.

As always,


DarrenS
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Mar 5, 2007, 1:26 PM

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A great read. Thanks. Look forward to the images.


Scott Brooks
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Mar 5, 2007, 3:58 PM

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Jenn ...

Glad to hear your report. It sounds like everything ... including the late bride ... was typical.

Just a couple of quick notes and questions.

Ceremony - For the most part I shot at 1000 ISO at f4.5 and 30 shutter, boucing flash off the 12 ft. ceiling, with it pointed slightly forward. (OH, and we also made a few Better Bounce cards and used those throughout the day. I'm a fan! The Fong-dong sat quietly at home, waiting for our return.) While I didn't get blur (b/c they hardly moved), the images are rather soft. We will correct for noise using Neat Image.

I take it you're shooting Nikon? Like you said, using flash during a ceremony is a rare thing. I don't believe that I've ever done that. What type of lens are you using?

During the ceremony my lens of choice is a Canon 70-200 f/2.8 IS. I pretty much shoot the whole thing in aperture priority at 2.8. and can usually hand hold it to about 1/60 and occasionally 1/30 depending on my distance.

I went along with a friend to help her out back in December. In doing so, I had the chance to experiment. It was a REALLY dark church/no flash allowed. The darkest wood you could imagine and the old tungsten lighting hung from the ceiling ... typical old church. I shot it at iso 3200 and then cleaned it up with Neat Image. I was amazed at how good it came out.

I don't know how the Nikon cameras are at higher iso settings, but you might experiment to see how far you can push it. Of course, with a 10 minute ceremony there's no time to try anything different.

This is going to be a fun year!



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Jenn M
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Hi Sparky!

We shoot Canon. For the ceremony, I used the 70-200 IS on the 20D which was mounted on a tripod. Brian set it up for me so it was ready to go when I was. I added the flash after I moved into position. Free hand I shot wide shots using the 17-55 IS on the 30D, no flash. Brian used a 24-70 on a 30D with some flash, some not at 1600 ISO.

The mistake I made was switching the flash from my hand held camera onto the tripod cam - I say 'mistake' b/c the ceremony was so short - I didn't have time to switch lenses and go wide for the recessional so those shots sucked - the flash was stuck on the 20D with the tele. It was quite dim in the room, much like you described, and every guest had a point and shoot, so I said, screw it, I'm using flash. At our last wedding in Oct. I shot w/ the same set up, but no flash, and I had the b&g in focus at 2.8, but the minister was soft, even blurred when he kept turning his face from side to side. That's why I stayed at f4 (1000 iso) - I didn't want that to happen again.


Of course, when we got home and started looking at the photos, I wanted to go back and redo the whole day b/c now I have to wait until May to do it again! sigh


Scott Brooks
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Jenn,

How are you getting an ISO setting of 1000? Do I need to go back and read the manual again? Unsure

Unless I missed it, the Canons progress doubling along the way ... 100, 200, 400, 800, 1600, 3200.

Now I remember that you do use Canon, but when I read an ISO of 1000 I started thinking Nikon.

Yup ... 2.8 can have a shallow dof. I just said the heck with it. Many times if I'm in the front to the very far side shooting the parents; I focus on the main one I want ... knowing that the other is going to be oof or very soft. I still like those shots.

If I set my ISO high enough, then I'll go ahead and go to something like f4 if I think it's needed, but I'll never do it if I can't get a shutter speed of at least 1/60.

BTW ... I will use Neat Image for ceremonies if I have to. I just make sure that I add a duplicate layer in PS so that I can reduce the opacity if needed. For receptions ... no problem ... I don't worry about it. I shoot most of them at f/4.0 at 1/30 with bounced flash.


Jenn M
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Hi Brack,

This bride was lo budget. Almost no budget. She got a deal on the venue b/c her family is friends of the owner. She got a deal on the DJ b/c it was 'off season' and he's a nut and can't turn away a job - so he did it for cheap. The photog was going to be a friend of a friend, who shoots film as a hobby. She didn't feel comfortable with that but said she couldn't afford anything more. Our fee of $500 is a stretch.


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What were the problems you had with the
processional/recessional? Just freezing the
motion? What shutter speeds were you
using that didn't work?



It wasn't so much the shutter speeds, I think, as it was the lighting. Should have pointed the flash in their direction, at least 45 degrees forward. Shutter speed was 30, I believe.

And when they come flying at you in a dark venue, sometimes the camera has difficulty focusing. Brian shot Servo, I used One-shot. Which reminds me, anyone have advice on this? We can't decide which is best.


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And with your blur problems at the reception,
are you just talking about the dancing shots?
Or blur in other shots, also? Again, what
shutter speeds didn't work?



AGain, it wasn't the shutter so much as the lack of light/flash. Need that flash to stop the motion. On some of the shots, it's okay - it works. But on some, it's just too extreme. I either should have been closer to the subject or used more direct flash. As soon as I get the photos up, you'll see what I mean.




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Last, I was wondering if you had considered
doing the "tap on the shoulder during the
slow dances" shot? By me, a lot of the
photogs come up and tap the B&G and parents
on the shoulder during the First Dance and
Parent Dances and have them "pose" for a
shot. Don't know if this is a good shot to
have in their album or not.



This is what I did a little more of near the end of the night. But not during the formal dances - I like to leave those alone and let the moment happen. I kind of loathe when traditional photographers do this too much. But during random dances and when guests are just sitting around, it doesn't hurt. They don't seem to mind... again, like I said, as long as your quick, you get in and get out then leave them alone.



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One, I can't decide for the post-ceremony formals whether
to do the wedding party shots first or the family shots.
I don't want the grandparents standing around
but on the other hand the groomsmen are usually
pretty warm (in their suits) and eager to move along
to the next step of drinking.
Does it seem like the bridemaids are also
pretty eager to move along - that they are
not patient to be standing around/hanging
out for the post formals?


I would always start with family, as long as everyone is available. At the church, for example, they often have to leave b/c they have to drive or ride with someone. Bridal party usually has no choice but to wait for the b&g b/c they are riding together. At a reception venue, the staff often brings drinks and appetizers for the bridal party, so that usually keeps them entertained while they wait for the family groupings. They don't seem to care about mingling as much as parents and other immediate family. Sometimes, they don't really know that many other people, besides the bride and groom. Also, so often, many of the bridal party members are in the family shots, so they have to wait anyway; whereas parents, etc. = they can leave and go talk to guests.

Another reason I like to do this is starting large and working your way down to a smaller group is more efficient. I don't want family members to hang around longer than necessary b/c the more bodies you have present, the more distractions there are and that can REALLY slow things down. When you're working on that tight schedule between ceremony & reception, time is of the essence. I've observed much of this over the many years of shooting video.

HOpe that helps.


Jenn M
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Oops - sorry Scott. The 30D has 1000 iso, the 20D does not. So I must have been at 1600 for the ceremony shots on the 20D. I shot formals at 800 on the 30D - I wonder if this was too high for formals. Again, I think I should have been throwing more light forward...?


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Oops - sorry Scott. The 30D has 1000 iso, the 20D does not. So I must have been at 1600 for the ceremony shots on the 20D. I shot formals at 800 on the 30D - I wonder if this was too high for formals. Again, I think I should have been throwing more light forward...?

AHA!! I do have reading to do. I just purchased a used 30D this last week (3rd body) and haven't had it out of the box yet. Apparently I'm in for more of just a larger LCD.

Honestly ... most of my formals are shot at 800 using a flip-it when they're at the altar. And yes ... I think sometimes they look a little bit soft ... but so far these are not the shots that are being printed larger than a 5x7 or 8x10.


RustyB
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Oops - sorry Scott. The 30D has 1000 iso, the 20D does not. So I must have been at 1600 for the ceremony shots on the 20D. I shot formals at 800 on the 30D - I wonder if this was too high for formals. Again, I think I should have been throwing more light forward...?



My first thought was that maybe you were shooting at way too high of an ISO, and what little light the flash was outputting was being bounced to nowhere.

Like you say, you might try using the flash the way it was intended...pointed forward. I've noticed that some of the photographers that were the most proactive in adjusting their flash heads at weddings, don't use ANY kind of diffuser or bounce card, but are constantly adjusting the head to fit each situation...forward, bounced, or thrown backwards.

Sounds like it was a learning experience! Good luck!




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